This year, my New Year’s Resolution or goal was to Rest.
Rest my body, rest my mind, and rest my soul. It means I’ve made some changes
to how and when chores get done. I’ve let some of my standards for cleanliness
fall a little lower. Overall, I’m in better shape than I was six months ago,
but I am still tired. I am still exhausted from living the good life. And it
frustrates me so much that really and truly, I am living the good life. God has
blessed me and my family so much, but we hardly have time to sit and enjoy the
blessings because we are tired.
So when I wanted to do an update on my 2016 Goal: Rest, I
came to Ecclesiastes 4:6 – which is wonderful all on its own, but has to be
taken in context in order to be understood fully. The surrounding verses speak
of the problem of labor and toil, and state that they are based in greed and a
lack of trust that God will provide for all our needs.
4And I saw that all toil and all achievement come from man’s
envy of his neighbor.
This too is meaningless, and a chasing after the wind.
5The fool folds his hands and ruins himself.
6Better is a handful of quietness
than two hands full with toil and chasing after the wind.
7Again I saw something meaningless under the sun:
8There was a man all alone’ he had neither son nor brother.
There was no end to his toil, yet his eyes were not content with his
wealth,
So he never asked, “For whom am I toiling,”
“and why am I depriving myself of enjoyment?”
This too is meaningless—a miserable business!
Today’s advertising experts have created a competitive
spirit in all of us. That “keeping up with the Jones’” attitude is real and
scary. I wish I could say that I am above all this, but in truth, we still
struggle. There is always going to be someone who has more money and friends,
whose kids have better grades, and take vacations that look a heck of a lot
more fun than our own. But the more we struggle and strive after what someone
else has, the more we lose sight of what we have, and God’s purpose in our
lives. Chasing after the wind
only leaves us lost.
Verse 5 calls to mind Proverbs 6:10-11, “A little sleep, a little slumber, a little
folding of the hands to rest—and poverty will come on you like a bandit and
scarcity like an armed man.” Yes the fool may be sluggardly and passive,
and come to ruin, but a life of toil for something as fleeting as the wind
isn’t a great idea either. Verse 6 basically tells us that it is better to do
with less, and enjoy it fully, than to have too much and never enjoy it. Verses
7-8 confirm this too.
The man without a son
or brother, who toils alone, builds up his wealth, but then can’t take the
time to enjoy it because he has to keep working to sustain it. So in this case,
wealth isn’t something that is stored up or showered upon the man, it is
something he has built, that has to be monitored and maintained or else it will
all come crumbling down and he will be left with nothing. And for what? He has
no son, no brother, and no one to share it all with. Truly it just leads up
deeper into discontentment, a miserable
business.
However, as I mentioned before, there is hope in this
situation. Better is a handful of
quietness…Sometimes we have to just turn off all the noise: turn off the TV
and stereo, log off Facebook and email, and take the batteries out of the toys.
If we can’t enjoy each other and our lives without these things, then we
will never be able to enjoy each other and our lives with them. We are so
blessed in this country, but sometimes all those blessings and supposed needs
get in the way of truly resting and trusting in God. What we need is a handful
of quietness so we can hear Him speak and so we can learn to listen.
I guess I should say, what I need is a handful of quietness so I can truly appreciate all God
has done and given me. So I can turn to Him and trust Him to continue to
provide for me and my family. I need to put the to-do list away, clear the
calendar, and turn off the phone, so I can just be with God, be with my
husband, and be with my son. There are so many distractions, and so many things
that just don’t work when they should and they distract me from what is really
important. When I stand before God in heaven, I think my biggest regret will be
not trusting God to give me what I needed, and not resting in the truth that He
loves me and will not let me fall. The world wants us to believe that we can
have it all. And maybe we can, but having it all is more often more trouble
than its worth. Better is a handful of
quietness than two hands full of toil and chasing the wind. Better is a
handful of heavenly treasure, than two hands full of worldly riches that never
satisfy and burn away anyway.